I know that you are alone a lot. I know that you feel fat and unpretty. That’s what they all have called you...your family, your friends, strangers. No one is going to tell you that you are beautiful, but you have to know that you are. You have to remember that you are kind, and friendly, and smart. That is what makes you beautiful. Your spirit is so beautiful. So stop overeating when you are sad and lonely. Apply yourself in school. You have natural gifts. Use them. No one will encourage you, but use your gifts anyway. You have so much to offer this world. Don't be afraid to embrace your talents. That's called purpose and it is from God.
Speaking of God, He will call home a lot of people who you love. Prepare yourself, some of them will leave you way too soon. Appreciate every moment that you have with your family. Love life. Open yourself up more. Smile often. When you smile the sadness in your eyes disappears. Find the confidence that you will need to become the young lady you really want to be. Don’t look for acceptance in boys and men. That will only add to your unhappiness.
Above all else, make choices from your heart. Never allow anyone to manipulate you or make you do things that feel wrong. You are smarter than you know. Kinder than you should be. And more beautiful than you feel. Listen to your head, but follow your heart always. You’re a special little girl and you will be just fine in this life.
Love always,
Yolanda
